Pastoral Endorsement

One of my roles at Living Streams Church is marriage ministry. I love using the book Keep Your Love On by Danny Silk as a resource to help couples develop strong, healthy marriages. In the marriage covenant, we make vows to love one another. This means that love is a choice we need to make every day to have a healthy, vibrant marriage.

However, this book is not just for married couples. The goal of every relationship is connection. Danny Silk speaks in this book of what it means to be a “powerful” person in choosing this connection in every relationship. Powerful people take responsibility for their lives and choices, and learn how to be the best version of themselves in the way they interact with others.

This book has so many insights on how to develop good relational skills. As the pastor over marriage ministry, I do a lot of counseling, and I almost always refer people to this book before doing anything else. If you are looking for a book with Biblical ideas that work in the real world, this book is for you!

— Kurt Cotter, Pastor of Men’s, Marriage, and Pastoral Care, Living Streams Church, Phoenix, Arizona

Study Guide

We recommend that you go through this study with a small group - this could be in a class setting (classes will be available at the Living Streams Phoenix Campus periodically) or with a group of friends or family. However, you are welcome to interact with the provided study material on your own, if you prefer. 


Connection - Your New Normal


Staying Connected


Communication in Relationships


Communicating Trust


Communicating in Conflict


The Need for Boundaries


Rules for Setting Boundaries


Keeping Your Love On

If you prefer the feel of using a good, old-fashioned pen and paper, feel free to download and print the entire study guide of Keep Your Love On here:

Required Reading

You will need this resource in order to participate in the study.